Saturday, January 19, 2013


BARRIERS TO SUCCESSFUL LIVING

Here are four great barriers to successful living -- desire, aversion, boredom and doubt; which ones may be keeping you from living better?

Desire is a powerful emotional demand. When we can’t immediately get what we desire, energy is wasted on feeling bad instead of doing something to feel good about. To live more successfully, don’t strain for what’s out of reach. Instead, live with greater ease exploring opportunities life naturally brings you and patiently move toward your goals.

Aversion is a form of rejection. As long as aversion is in force, doors to new possibilities, experiences and learning remain closed. To live more successfully, be open and accepting of things that you normally reject; try new things and expand your comfort zone!

Boredom (and mental dullness) is often a psychological withdrawal to avoid effort. It suppresses one’s flow of energy, feelings, involvement, and the ability to fully enjoy life.  To live more successfully, put extra effort into meeting life’s challenges and learn all you can from others and each situation; replace boredom with the fun of playfully and creatively exploring what’s at hand.

Doubt is an immobilizing negative belief. It keeps us from taking positive action and achieving more than we might expect.  To live more successfully, replace doubt with inquiry, testing and discovering what’s true. 

As we keep desire, aversion, boredom and doubt from controlling what we can or can’t do, we expand our possibility and power to live more successfully.

Goodness and joy to all,  Joseph.

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