Sunday, July 14, 2013


FREEING LOVE

As the sun is a constant of the sky, love is a constant of the soul.  And like the radiant sun, love can get clouded over.  But as soon as the clouds are gone, we experience what was always there -- radiant, joyful love.

What forms these dark clouds keeping love from shining through varies from individual to individual and changes throughout life.  But in all cases they are forms of negativity rooted in fear.  So the primary enemy of love is fear.  As we recognize and overcome our fears, we free our capacity to be more loving. 

So the question becomes not who to love or how much to love, but rather, how to become more free to be loving so we may truly love and be loved.

We may need to overcome much before we can fully love. And it begins by recognizing our fear.  So look within to see what you fear about love. Are you afraid of expressing it and being rejected ... or of being trapped ... or of being overcome by powerful feelings ... or that it will place too great a burden and responsibility on you ... or something else?

Once you discover what your barrier is, do the work of moving passed it. This will require the willingness to take a risk and to challenge yourself.  But as you do, something great will happen to you -- you may discover that there’s really only one thing to fear. And that is living without ever experiencing your full capacity to love ... especially with a special person with whom you decide to share life.

Goodness and joy to all,  Joseph.

INCREASE AWARENESS. FORWARD "THOUGHTS TO LIVE BY" TO A FRIEND.